August 8, 2014: Del Rio News-Herald * Letters to the Editor "The war on women"
Letter to the Editor,
The July 30, 2014 “Crime
& More” section had the following headlines featured: (1) Man accused of
choking woman, (2) Man accused of strangling woman during argument, (3) Man
facing assault charge after allegedly striking woman, and (4) Man’s threats
lead to arrest for family violence.
The “Entertainment”
section included the following article: “ESPN has suspended outspoken
sportscaster Stephen A. Smith for a week because of his comments about domestic
abuse suggesting women should make sure that they don’t do anything to provoke
an attack”.
The overwhelming and
overpowering impact of these headline stories is the deplorable and despicable
picture it is portraying about the state of our society.
The accused men in these
cases were involved in what is termed “family violence assault” and “domestic
abuse”.
The words “abuse”, “assault”
and “violence” are horrific words of aggression, brutality, cruelty, denigration
and exploitation which conjure up images of battle, combat and warfare.
These words of a hostile
environment are partnered with the words “family” and “domestic”, which are
words of a hospitable environment evoking sentiments of a loving family and
domestic tranquility.
The family should be an
affluence of affection and affirmation, and a sanctuary of safety and security.
The family should be a
positive and pleasurable place; not a place of pain and punishment.
The once protector of the
family and provider in the home, has viciously and violently become the pathological
persecutor inflicting physical and psychological torture to the members of his
own family and in his own home.
This is truly the tragedy
of the terrifying and tragic “war on women”; the real “war on women”, not just political
rhetoric; because these pertinent and prescient true-life stories are occurring
right here and right now.
This “war on women” is
detrimental and deleterious, because it is not just a smokescreen of slogans
and sound bites meant to be incendiary and incite political posturing; but this
war is truly a matter of life and death.
This is a chilling wake-up
call and a clear call to action.
Marian Casillas, Ed.D.